The Official Relationship, Dating, or Talking Problems/Questions Thread

April 15, 2013 @ 15:21:19 PM
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Anyone's girl ever give them the cold shoulder. How do you deal with it? I just try to ignore it, give her space, and enjoy my life. 
April 23, 2013 @ 10:28:11 AM
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Just woke up from a dream where i was banging my ex girlfriend while being with my current one, and it felt so good. I would definetly do the same if i could in real life
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April 24, 2013 @ 03:32:44 AM
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has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
April 24, 2013 @ 04:40:43 AM
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help
girlfriend. we both like each other a lot. argue a lot a lot. I love her a lot, but sick of hurting her feelings every week. I all about being positive. I would rather just be friends. She'll rather work on the relationship. but we are both stubborn and its clearly not gonna work out. She is such a happy girl when im with her, but turns into a witch when im away. we live a hour away from each other, so we see each mostly once a week.
What should I do? I want to just be friends to stop all the negativity.

bust a nut post it on hb then leave her
April 24, 2013 @ 14:25:43 PM
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has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
Yeah once I posted is it bad to over think and kbos gave me some real good advice and I stopped. It was all fine. 
April 24, 2013 @ 15:36:36 PM
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has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
That's beauty of this thread. HB brethren come together with their knowledge and perspectives to help each other. We all have advice to give and share with one another. But, it is advice-nothing more. Each situation and result is unique. No one knows the situation better than you and the decision is ultimately up to you.
April 29, 2013 @ 05:34:27 AM
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has any of the advice ever given on here ever actually help someone?
That's beauty of this thread. HB brethren come together with their knowledge and perspectives to help each other. We all have advice to give and share with one another. But, it is advice-nothing more. Each situation and result is unique. No one knows the situation better than you and the decision is ultimately up to you.
i guess every situation is unique and we dont know both sides of every story told in this thread so i guess all the advice giving is take at own risk
May 01, 2013 @ 03:07:43 AM
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Quick survey

How many bad (or not so bad) bitches do you have to approach and pull numbers from before you actually get it in with one of them?

"Rap in 2012 is basically just a mad dash for people of EVERY human subset to be represented by a rapper." - damnwitless1

May 01, 2013 @ 03:54:43 AM

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iDK MAN

a nigga can't fuck with a girl with a huge ego
May 01, 2013 @ 19:51:05 PM
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Hi, what do I do if my girlfriend of 2 and a half years suddenly says I'm not making enough effort and then when I do attempt to make a bit more effort (cuddle her more, take her out more) she say's that the actions are forced?
Update on this, everything I do seems to be forced and fake, she said we should spend a few days apart and then go out for something to eat after the few days to talk things over and sort it all out. Although as we were having the 'few days break' she went to the cinema with another guy just as friends but I'm not going to let that shit pass, what do I do? Is she taking me for a fool? Keep in mind this is a 2 and a half year relationship and things just seemed to pop up out of nowhere about her saying I don't make enough effort.
Yeah drop her. She only wanted the break to see if she would like th other dude. Find yourself a better girl. 
that there is a foul girl my dude. dip out on her asap. tell her fuck it and do you. 

I got it, dripping like water.

May 01, 2013 @ 19:53:35 PM
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Not saying this pertains to my life. But I tweeted the other day "when a guy cheats it isnt shit, but when a girl does its always spiteful." cheatings never cool not saying it is. But when I said it all my female followers flipped shit lmfao. Like I was sexist but its true, is it not? Dudes cheat cause when we get hard we cant fucking think lolol. But girls dont just leave the crib and say "hmm i need some new dick" that shit has to be out of spite. unless your girl is just a slut.

I got it, dripping like water.

May 02, 2013 @ 15:37:08 PM
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Aye so me and this chick have hung out quite a bit with my friends so I'm thinking of asking her if she would like to see Tame Impala or The xx at the end of the month; I'm wondering if this is a good choice to do so since it would be our first time doing something together alone? She likes The xx not sure about Tame Impala.
May 02, 2013 @ 19:49:27 PM
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handling jealousy?

I got it, dripping like water.

May 02, 2013 @ 20:13:14 PM
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Aye so me and this chick have hung out quite a bit with my friends so I'm thinking of asking her if she would like to see Tame Impala or The xx at the end of the month; I'm wondering if this is a good choice to do so since it would be our first time doing something together alone? She likes The xx not sure about Tame Impala.
Go see the xx, take her back to your crib and smash after, easy job if you are willing to do all that for her 
May 02, 2013 @ 22:55:38 PM
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Thanks bruh, we both like The xx so that it shall be. smokeyface
May 03, 2013 @ 17:32:13 PM
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Alright bruhs so i got a situation... Ive been really choppin it up with this chick. We text hella and lately every night we'll be on the phone just talking about everything and ive been really feelin this girl. So i had to ask "what are we" and she was like " right now i want to work on a friendship rather than a relationship because of what happened with jason." (dude she got fucked over by) did i fucking get friendzoned? she still hits me up hella and she's like "Hey FRIEND" and idk if she playin or not. What do i do?
May 03, 2013 @ 17:43:38 PM
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Thats is a textbook situation, she got played by a dude and she needs to fill the void so she talks to you when feeling lonely. It has nothing to do with that dude that shes not feeling you, thats just something she says. Sorry b, but your not gonna get anywhere with this girl so just try to forget as fast as you can. 
May 03, 2013 @ 20:12:51 PM

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Alright bruhs so i got a situation... Ive been really choppin it up with this chick. We text hella and lately every night we'll be on the phone just talking about everything and ive been really feelin this girl. So i had to ask "what are we" and she was like " right now i want to work on a friendship rather than a relationship because of what happened with jason." (dude she got fucked over by) did i fucking get friendzoned? she still hits me up hella and she's like "Hey FRIEND" and idk if she playin or not. What do i do?
dat friendzone
May 03, 2013 @ 20:13:35 PM

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Don't treat girls like girls, take the lead and be a fucking man.
May 04, 2013 @ 18:11:07 PM
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i actually told a girl how i felt bout her on thursday it did not work never again lol i got the your my friend line fuck being honest
May 04, 2013 @ 22:00:25 PM
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i actually told a girl how i felt bout her on thursday it did not work never again lol i got the your my friend line fuck being honest
keep her as a friend.

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May 05, 2013 @ 03:36:02 AM
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Yo guys i need some advice on what to do with this girl. So we used to just hang out through a mutual friend but a couple weeks ago she started hitting me up and we have been talking every other day and now she has started to get kind of attached (texting me more constantly, wanting to hang out alot more often, etc..). She's cute and i'm not gunna lie i sort of lead her on a bit at the beggining but now i'm starting to think she wants something serious and i definately dont, i'm just trying to figure out how to not be an asshole but make it clear i'm not interested in anything serious. Any advice/opinions on how i should handle this would be appreciated guys, thanks.
May 05, 2013 @ 22:04:45 PM
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Yo, so if I think a girl might be taking advantage of me, like the only times we kick it now are when she needs a ride home from work or to and from school, do I call her out on it or just drop that bitch all together? It used to not be like that, idk about her anymore.

Edit: we have the same classes in college so its not like its a hassle for me to take her with me to school, but still.
May 05, 2013 @ 23:01:05 PM

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Yo, so if I think a girl might be taking advantage of me, like the only times we kick it now are when she needs a ride home from work or to and from school, do I call her out on it or just drop that bitch all together? It used to not be like that, idk about her anymore.

Edit: we have the same classes in college so its not like its a hassle for me to take her with me to school, but still.
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May 05, 2013 @ 23:01:41 PM

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how the fuck are you guys so naive

women will use you to no end if you let them

learn to fucking say no
May 05, 2013 @ 23:33:52 PM
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Yo, so if I think a girl might be taking advantage of me, like the only times we kick it now are when she needs a ride home from work or to and from school, do I call her out on it or just drop that bitch all together? It used to not be like that, idk about her anymore.

Edit: we have the same classes in college so its not like its a hassle for me to take her with me to school, but still.
nigga stand up and tell that bitch you wont be doing her favors
May 06, 2013 @ 03:52:19 AM
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Originally posted by Inactive User
i actually told a girl how i felt bout her on thursday it did not work never again lol i got the your my friend line fuck being honest
keep her as a friend.
i really have no other choice do i
May 06, 2013 @ 04:28:53 AM
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Yo, so if I think a girl might be taking advantage of me, like the only times we kick it now are when she needs a ride home from work or to and from school, do I call her out on it or just drop that bitch all together? It used to not be like that, idk about her anymore.

Edit: we have the same classes in college so its not like its a hassle for me to take her with me to school, but still.
nigga stand up and tell that bitch you wont be doing her favors
Nah, tell her to drop them draws! 

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May 06, 2013 @ 04:42:40 AM
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Aight so I got a problem. This chick that I work with been showing me mad rhythm at work (extra attention, flirting, etc). She's a bit older than me but I really don't mind it. Anyways, I finally got her number and I hit her up from time to time but her replies are so stale! A lot of one word answers and broken convos. We also tried to kick it a few times but it just never happened. But when we at work its a whole different story. Honestly, if she didn't look so good i'd probably wudda passed on her but I can't help it, she got it going on! WTF should I do? Keep pursuing or just chill?

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